The Power To Heal: Feng Shui Sound Bites For Better Health.

Posted on April 7, 2015 by bette

“The first wealth is health.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson

1 in 3 people will get cancer in their lifetime. If you are reading this, either you have cancer, are in remission, have a relative who is living with cancer or know a friend with cancer. It has become inescapable in the 21st century. I lost two sisters to cancer. When I heard about the eleven part docu-series, “The Truth About Cancer” I knew immediately I wanted to watch the series in its entirety. Ty Bollinger interviewed 28 doctors, 11 Scientists, 9 Survivors and 1 Attorney across the United States and Mexico. They discuss the environmental causes of cancer, why it is now a pandemic and protocols for preventing and treating cancer. Robert Scott Bell, D.A. Hom., homeopathic physician interviewed on TQTC, produces and hosts an internet program, “The Power To Heal Is Yours”. His mission is to empower his audience through talking about the politics associated with health, the environment, and available healing modalities, among those, non-invasive cancer therapies. Taking on “the power to heal” mission, my intention is to empower you through sharing Feng Shui adjustments that create positive Ch’i and support a positive lifestyle so you can minimize illness and live a healthy life.

Feng Shui is too often an infrequent part of a health regime due largely to consultants’ education efforts being ignored. In 2013 cancer was declared an epidemic in the U.S. Most causes of cancer stem from our environment–inside our home and beyond our four walls. We can no longer afford to turn our back on the environment that affects our health. I have discovered when I help clients address confusion, anger, wandering Ch’i, accidents, instability and insecurity through adjusting the design details in their home, I help them address major Ch’i depletion. Why is this important? Ch’i depletion becomes fatigue. When it become chronic fatigue, it compromises the immune system and a compromised immune system does not have the resilience to overcome illness including cancer. A home where the Feng Shui has been corrected is an environment that has life force and vitality. When design features that affect one’s thinking and emotions are addressed, the occupants have mental clarity, awareness and are better able to recognize the nuances of ill health before it morphs into a disease that runs away with their money and peace of mind.

My belief is these Feng Shui Sound Bites will increase your awareness that health is holistic and that you can do something about it. The actions I have included will help your home support you. The list is by no means complete. There is much more to this body of Feng Shui health than I could include here so I designed this sampler to inform you how to start the process of addressing your’s or a loved one’s health concerns holistically, from the ground up.

When Illness Is Chronic. To help end chronic illness, remove dead plants from around the front door. This is especially a detriment to good health for older folks. Also perform Adjusting the Sediment. If the occupant has a chronic depression, use the colors apple green or reddish purple.
When Illness Is Constant. If you are ill all the time this will help to end the cycle. Check to see if you have the following: two windows opposite one another with the bed in between, if so adjust this. Two doors opposite one another with the bed in between. A window and a door opposite one another with the bed in between. Adjust a bathroom over a kitchen, especially if the toilet is directly above the stove.
When Illness Is Caused By The Environment. To reduce your sensitivity to toxins in the environment, plant a garden. Your Ch’i will be enhanced by the surrounding green and lush vegetation.
When Illness Is Fluctuating. When you get well but get sick again, get well and sick again and it never seems to end, adjust a building or residence with many levels. Adjust a stairway in the center.
When Illness Is Cancer. H. H. Lin Yun advised to never use Feng Shui as the sole means to address a health issue. He would always say: find a doctor who is a specialist. Seek a second opinion. Seek a doctor of Oriental medicine. If all of this fails, or as a reference, seek holistic healing. A powerful and effective transcendental cure he shared: visualize the auspicious Ch’i of the Six True Colors (white, red, yellow, green, blue, black) entering every cancer cell in the body. Visualize every cell turning back to normal. Complete with The Three Secrets which are three things you do with your body: hold a mudra (Like the Calming Heart mudra or prayer mudra), mind (visualize what you wish to accomplish) and speech (say a mantra like the Six True Words or say a prayer from your tradition) to complete this visualization. Adjust the front door by adding nine vital plants to this area. It may help someone who has cancer. A transcendental method is the Three Flute Method (placing a cure in between the mattress and box spring because the energy that is closet to you affects you the most. Cures in and around the bed are very common and we see positive results in BSTB Feng Shui).
When Illness Is Breast Cancer. Find a doctor who is a specialist. Seek a second opinion. Seek a doctor of Oriental medicine. If all of this fails, or as a reference, seek holistic healing. Adjust the Partnership gua (it is symbolic of the Female ) and the T’ai Ch’i/Center (Health) position in your home.
When Illness Is Uterine Cancer. Find a doctor who is a specialist. Seek a second opinion. Seek a doctor of Oriental medicine. If all of this fails, or as a reference, seek holistic healing. Then hang a round faceted crystal in the Partnership gua (it is symbolic of the Female and the abdomen).
When Illness Is Prostate Cancer. Find a doctor who is a specialist. Seek a second opinion. Seek a doctor of Oriental medicine. If all of this fails, or as a reference, seek holistic healing. Then perform the Ten Fingers Stretch nine times a day, repeating the cycle three times each of the nine times.

The power to heal is yours (thank you, Robert Scott Bell)! If you are not getting the results you envisioned with your current protocol, please contact me to talk, 503-232-2543, I may be of help.

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Luck Actually Is All Around.

Posted on March 16, 2015 by bette

“Those who have succeeded at anything and don’t mention luck are kidding themselves.”
– Larry King

Have you reveled in the spring grass holding your perfect four leaf clover? Have you kissed a blarney stone on St. Patrick’s Day; carried a rabbit’s foot to ace a job interview; crossed your fingers when your son takes a shot from the foul line, worn red underwear on New Year’s eve, kissed at the stroke of midnight to purify the new year? Then you are one of the millions, from Armenia to Pakistan, who keep the faith that luck actually is all around.

In Feng Shui, human luck blossoms when earth luck is made golden by hanging cures, carrying fetishes and performing ceremonies. Yet it also takes a bit of the extraordinary to really guarantee success. It takes heaven luck, the mapping of the stars to pinpoint the best time to take action. Last year I explained how the Chinese solar-lunar calendar creates a practical strategy for the coming year. Reap those golden opportunities when you know what is in store for your Chinese Zodiac animal in the Year of the Ram.

If you don’t know your Chinese Zodiac Sign, here’s a calculator.

Rat: You are in the most confrontational position this year. Learn to be flexible and adaptable to situations. At work be on the look out for being victimized. The good news is your finances and health look good this year. Adjust your Feng Shui like place your bed, desk and stove in command position and you will create a favorable turn of fortune. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) and Lunar July (August 14-September 12) are three harmony months. The stars will bring smooth luck, money and happiness. However beware of portals in your home and burglaries and theft in the first month. In August you may travel or make investments. Pay attention to unexpected opportunities and seize any favorable chance. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) you will be in ‘direct confrontation’ with the month which is made worse by the ‘direct confrontation’ of the year. Lawsuit, illness and financial loss may loom large. Do a good deed every day to avoid calamities and off set the bad fortune. Lunar August (September 13-October 12) career and finances are unstable. Refrain from being extravagant and exert patience.

Ox: Ox and Ram are in direct conflict this year. You will feel exhausted with all the rushing about. You may enjoy moderate success, the gains will not offset the losses. Exert caution in all endeavors and see financial losses as a way to buy peace. If you become sick, get immediate medical attention. Be grateful and cherish all blessings. Make sure the mouth of Ch’i is free of obstacles (shoes that clutter the entrance means evil). Do a good deed every day. You will ward off bad luck and invited good fortune in. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) is ‘three harmony’ luck and auspicious. Money may come in from conventional and unconventional means. Remember to monitor your expenditures in accordance to your income. Treat others with respect, avoid criticism. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) and Lunar June (July 16-August 13) Lunar May expect ill luck. Do not let your guard down. Beware of scoundrels and back stabbers. Make no investments, real estate purchases or change careers. Lunar May the bad outnumbers the good. There will be a series of misfortunes. If you know the Golden Cicada, perform it. Always remember to do good deeds and you will build merit. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) is a three harmony month. Wealth and romance are favorable. Happiness is part of your demeanor. However beware of portals in your home and burglaries and theft in the first month. Lunar October (November 12-December 10) maintain a low profile, be less aggressive and you will minimize mistakes. Expect pressure at work and pay attention to stomach issues. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) is a six harmony month. You will be at your best. Helpful people will come to your aid and wealth luck is good. A wedding is possible this month.

Tiger: Luck for Tigers is agreeable with providential stars looking after you. Not only is the Ram auspicious but “Ram falls prey to Tiger.” gives additional good fortune. Expect helpful people to be available and you will get what you want. On all fronts, scholarly achievement, rank, travel and income will bear fruitful results. If you are married you will have harmony in the family. Singles will experience joyful events, perhaps a marriage. However take precaution against unexpected disasters. If you fall sick, seek medical help immediately. If you gain from investments, retreat, do not try to repeat the luck. Make sure your stove is command position and you do not have any doors in the wealth gua that could leak money chi. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) Lunar New Year brings auspicious celebrations together with happy Ch’i. All things to go your way whether it is work, wealth, family, love life or fame. Pay attention to interpersonal relationships (a Tiger theme for the year). Be modest, sincere and keep a low profile. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) beware of disputes and unsettling chaos. Avoid spats with your spouse or loved one or it could lead to divorce or separation. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) you are in a most ‘confrontational and mutually offensive’ with the month. Take precaution against unexpected disasters, traffic accidents and scoundrels meaning harm. Do not lie to your loved one and be cautious when going out. Lunar July (August 14-September 12) you are in ‘direct conflict’ there is more misfortune than good luck. Lunar September (October 13-November 11) you are in a three harmony month. You are riding on the success you created, however plan for a rainy day. Lunar October (November 12-December 10) is an excellent month for ‘six harmony’ luck. You will receive a drastic increase in blessings and fortune. Refrain from gossip and spreading rumors to keep this good luck intact. Do good deeds whenever you experience unexpected events or disaster.

Rabbit: Luck for the Rabbit is a ‘three harmony’. You will be blessed with luck, prosperity and longevity. You will find helpful people wherever you go, job promotions will rise, life matters will proceed smoothly, financial fortunes flourish and health will be strong. At the same time take precaution against bloodshed – young persons guard against violence, pregnant mothers wary of complications and all Rabbits watch for traffic accidents. Be aware of both income and expenditures. Be on the alert for financial losses and bankruptcy. Married couples beware of third party intruders invading your marital bliss. Adjust your Feng Shui like place your bed, desk and stove in command position and you will create an even greater series of fortunate events. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) is a mix of good and bad luck. Be cautious of small financial losses and those harboring malicious intent. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) is a month of misfortunes. Deal with matters in a humble and peaceful manner. If you know the Golden Cicada, perform to bring protection. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) be careful of water related dangers and stay away from wading in water. Lunar June (July 16-August 13) and Lunar July (August 14-September 12) and Lunar September (October 13-November 11) bring smooth events and auspiciousness. Lunar June luck brings a promotion or matrimony. Lunar July financial fortune awaits in faraway places. Lunar September remain focused and avoid indecisiveness. Financial fortune and romantic relationships will show progress. Act more assertively during this time. Lunar December (January 10-February 7) matters will be volatile with big emotional ups and downs. Meditate, open to your heart and do a good deed everyday.

Dragon: Luck of the Dragon is in ‘direct confrontation’ which will cause the year’s luck to fluctuate, however the auspiciousness of the Ram year will reduce the impact of misfortune. Act with caution, increased effort and in accordance with the law. Do not take unnecessary risks and be cautious of placing all resources in one opportunity. Practice meditation and help others. Kind deeds will help you get through the year more peacefully. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) is a ‘confrontational’ month where matters will not proceed smoothly. Do not make investments, travel nor sign contracts. Be cautious, you could be betrayed by someone you trust. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) will be a time of festivities and celebrations. Very possibly a wedding in this month. Career prospects will be stable. Avoid arguments with your partner. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) good fortune is riding high and plans proceed smoothly. Be mindful of interpersonal relationships. Lunar July (August 14-September 12) is ‘three harmony’ luck. Students will do well on exams and those with jobs will enjoy increased compensation. Be careful to avoid ailments or disasters. Lunar September (October 13-November 11) luck will be blocked. Expect a low boiling point. A loss of money will avert an even bigger disaster. Proceed with caution when driving. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) happiness, good fortune and wealth will march right up to your doorstep. Helpful people will be at your side. Career prospects will go smoothly. Be careful to avoid impulsive actions.

Snake: Luck of the year will be smooth and steady. Career and work will progress nicely. Romance will be average. Don’t pursue unrealistic goals and don’t be greedy. There is harmony in the family so focus on household matters. There could be a serious illness or death in the family. There could also be significant expenditures and bankruptcy. Reinforce your Helpful People and Wealth gua. If you know the Golden Cicada perform this on the first of the month. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) the spring brings luck and financial bliss. Financial investments pay dividends but know when to quit. Take major steps to expand your business. Do not make bad acquaintances. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) is a ‘confrontational’ month and the luck is not good. Quickly address any illnesses that arise. Lunar June (July 16-August 13) helpful people are on your side and good news comes from afar. Small financial losses will avert a bigger disaster. Consider traveling, discussing business partnerships and identify new channels to develop wealth. Perform a good deed a day and accumulate long-term merits. Lunar July (August 14-September 12) is a month of ‘direct conflict’ and negative spirits. Remain calm and stable. Do not make investments, travel, open accounts or change jobs. Lunar July (August 14-September 12) is ‘three harmony’ luck. Students receive top marks, the family receives outstanding news, those in a relationship finally get married. Career prospects are outstanding. Don’t wait and don’t hesitate. Lunar September (October 13-November 11) you may consider business opportunities in another country. Helpful people will be available to assist and there is a chance to make a profit. Lunar September (October 13-November 11) matters will come to a boil. Do not engage in disputes and arguments. Do not do much, bid your time and take precautions when driving. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) luck arises again. Your work efforts receive validation and your investments pay off. Lunar December (January 10-February 7) is a ‘three harmony’ luck. Good news arrives and bad luck turns good.

Horse: The luck of Horse in the year of the Ram will be a ‘six harmony’ luck and will be blessed with luck prosperity and happiness. Many lucky stars bring good opportunities, financial resources abound, careers will arise to the next level, romantic prospects will be stable and the household will be peaceful and happy and your heart content. With all this good luck, share it, do good deeds to remain humble and kind. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) is a ‘confrontational’ month. Live within your financial means, avoid lending money and don’t give endorsements. Married couples should not bicker, avoid holding grudges. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) and Lunar April (May 18-June 15) things will go according to plan and if you are in business you will see increased sales. Lunar April is a good month to set long-term goals through careful consideration. Do not make hasty decisions. Lunar June (July 16-August 13) in this month you will happiness and prosperity. Your fortune improves and your career advancement path clears. Seize opportunities to advance. Lunar August (September 13-October 12) you will see fortune and happiness; Lunar September (October 13-November 11) make investments, travel, even start a new business and Lunar October (November 12-December 10) the heart will achieve what it wishes and all will be well. Perform a good deed a day and things will go even smoother. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) dark clouds appear on the horizon. Be careful of bankruptcy and illness. Be alert for a car related accident. Lunar December (January 10-February 7) you luck turns for the worse. Stay vigilant, keep a low profile and act with discipline. Be mindful of communication. Arguments can undermine harmony in the household.

Ram: If you are born with the zodiac animal, Ram, you are sitting in the seat of the Tai Sui (the year god). This position generates bad luck. This is somewhat alleviated by the auspicious nature of the Ram sign. It is a year to take precaution against unexpected disasters. You may experience a series of minor sicknesses, seek medical attention immediately. Do not get involved with business speculation or depend on sheer luck. Stay away from taking risks or you may become reckless in desperation. Remain contented and know your place. Married couples will experience bliss. Singles will have a bumpy time of it. Adjust your Feng Shui, place your bed, desk and stove in command position and you will create an even greater series of fortunate events. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) is ‘three harmony’ luck. You’ll experience financial gain and happiness. All endeavors seem smooth and prosperous. Should you encounter situations be decisive, rely on your wisdom. Don’t hold back or you could miss a golden opportunity. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) is a ‘mutually offensive’ month, be cautious. Look out for scoundrels who want to do you harm. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) the sky is clearing and helpful people are by your side. Do not seek quick profits or speedy results. Lunar June (July 16-August 13) your luck is not so good. Take precaution against being cheated. Check the background of the people you associate with. Lunar July (August 14-September 12) the Star of Matrimony is rising and there will be a celebration in the home. But do look out for gossiping, rumors and scoundrels. Lunar October (November 12-December 10) the ‘three harmony’ luck will “disperse all sorrow”. Be advised to be aggressive in planning and preparing your future. Golden opportunities are reserved for those who are well-equipped. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) is a most confrontational month. You will encounter obstacles and the tranquility of your body and spirit will be disturbed. Keep a low profile and remain conservative. Lunar December (January 10-February 7) is a month of ‘direct conflict’. Beware of financial issues and pay attention to traffic accidents. Do not take risks in investing.

Monkey: A good year for the Monkey, so much luck coming your way. You will make steady progress in anything you want to achieve. Support is coming from many sources: people will help you reach your goals, guide you through difficult situations and recommend you to higher-ups. If you are single you will find your ideal partner and get married. If you are married you will tend to enter into the fray with your spouse. You need to be patient and tolerant to avoid any disagreement. Place building a harmonious family as your first priority. Don’t be greedy or arrogant. Disastrous or frustrating situations can be avoided. Perform a good deed everyday. Adjust Helpful People gua in your home to make what will be smooth, even better. Let go of the internal chatter by meditating. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) your financial situation improves and your plan is being delivered successfully. Your luck is riding high as spring brings new energy and events happen one after the other. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) the good planets are bringing you good luck. You work successfully and cooperate well with others. Be mindful that you do not show off or you will attract envy. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) is a ‘six harmony’ luck. Do things rather than talk about them. Money flows in and you make big strides in your career. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) go on a long distance journey and enter into negotiations. Your plan can be executed in detail this month. Lunar August (September 13-October 12) you get a lot of guidance and support this month. People could gossip about you, face the situation calmly, don’t let it spoil your mood. Lunar October (November 12-December 10) is a ‘most confrontational’ month. You will be involved with disputes and accidents. Don’t try to split hairs. Perform good deeds daily. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) and Lunar December (January 10-February 7) both months you end on a very good note. Offer your good luck to others by helping them. Bravo!

Rooster: There are many inauspicious stars present and very few lucky stars for Rooster folks. Fortunately the Year of the Ram brings auspiciousness, softening the harmful aspect. Your luck and career will be unstable. It will be difficult to carry out your plans. You will have little power and resources to do as you wish. Keep calm and handle this with patience and appropriately. As the saying goes, “Great forbearance brings grand harmony.” Pay attention to your finances to avoid overspending. Adjust your Feng Shui, place your bed, desk and stove in command position and you will offset the unfortunate Ch’i of the year. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) your sign is in ‘direct conflict’ relationship with the sign of the month. Beware of illness, traffic accidents and financial loss. Avoid going on trips, launching your career, entering into partnership or making investments. Be passive this month. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) is ‘six harmony’ luck, you will be able to turn bad luck into good fortune. All things will run smoothly but be surefooted in your approach. Spend more time with your family. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) you have the support of helpful people and will experience both fame and wealth. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) beware of sudden accidents. Your mood may be low because of intense pressure at work. If you know Nine Step Breathing aka Inhale Exhale Breathing, perform this daily. Lunar June (July 16-August 13) is the month of the ghost, remain passive. Be careful of lawsuits and scoundrels. Lunar September (October 13-November 11) your sign and that of the month will be in a most confrontational relationship. Do not act on impulse. Avoid conflicts with others. Lunar October (November 12-December 10) you will enjoy good luck and be able to carry out your plans and projects. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) there will be instability with your partner which could have an adverse effect on your careers. Be compassionate with everyone this month. Lunar December (January 10-February 7) is a ‘three harmony’ luck. You will enjoy prosperity. Plan your career with foresight and listen to the advice of experts.

Dog: Though Dog and Ram are in a ‘mutually offensive’ relationship, the bad influence of evil planets can be abated by the good influence of fortunate planets and the Year of the Ram. Work can be stressful. Morally debase people may stab you in the back but you also get a lot of support from people who can help you tremendously. It’s a mixed bag this year. You might jump into the fray with your family members. Try to practice tolerance in order to avoid a dispute. Fortune will come to you if you treat people sincerely and do charitable deeds everyday. Adjust your Feng Shui, place your bed, desk and stove in command position and you will offset the unfortunate Ch’i of the year. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) everything goes well and you will be happy. Be positive and decisive in making investments or establish a business so you do not miss good opportunities. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) the bad luck may impede your progress. Make the effort to patch up quarrels and settle disputes. Make concessions if you need to. Pay more attention to your family members. Take time to communicate with the people around you to strengthen ties. You will build better relationships with family and colleagues. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) you are likely to get a promotion and salary raise. Don’t be emotional when dealing with situations. Use your brain to think clearly before taking action. Lunar May (June 16-July 15) is a ‘three harmony’ luck helps you unleash your entrepreneurial potential. You have opportunities to go to many social events, take advantage of this but watch your diet (tummy). Lunar June (July 16-August 13) your financial situation looks bleak. Do not make risky investments. Do not go on a long journey, start a new business venture, start a negotiation or sign a contract. Lunar August (September 13-October 12) is the ‘most confrontational’ bringing you turmoil, disputes and betrayal. If you know the Golden Cicada perform that on the first day of the lunar month (very early in the morning) to avoid the offending energies. Lunar October (November 12-December 10) out of depth of misfortune comes bliss. You receive a windfall (your sincerity paid off). Lunar November (December 11-January 9) and Lunar December (January 10-February 7) both months adversity takes the front seat. Never trouble until trouble troubles you. Lunar December is ‘mutually offensive’. Correct any mistakes you made. Do not blame other, you will only attract disaster. Perform one good deed day to avert any bad fortune.

Pig: You will attain a lot of success with the ‘three harmony’ relationship to the Year of the Ram. Anything can be achieved easily and luck will accompany you throughout the year. Your career skyrockets. The only minor setback is your health. You frequently get minor ailments. Do not visit the patients in hospitals nor people in their homes who have been sick. Changes might occur to your family or romantic relationships. Try to be modest, do not act on impulse. Lunar February (March 20-April 18) beautiful moons join together. You receive a lot of good news and you achieve your goals easily. Cultivate your virtue of tolerance to avoid making hasty judgements about others. Lunar March (April 19-May 17) you’ll hear a lot of good news and expect your wealth to grow. Make investments, start a partnership, found a company. Lunar April (May 18-June 15) is a ‘direct conflict’ month. You will experience a lot of obstacles in both your career and relationships. Set your sights on long-term goals and let go of troublesome matters. Lunar July (August 14-September 12) is ‘most confrontational’ month. You will find frustration in much of what you attempt to do, your plans most of all. Be conscious of potential financial losses and bodily injuries. Lunar August (September 13-October 12) you face a lot of difficulties but after many tries you achieve your goal successfully. Luck returns and you are likely to gain a lot of wealth in the second half of the month. Lunar October (November 12-December 10) you have both good and bad luck. Your projects are thwarted and you cannot fully reach your potential. Don’t ignore the big picture because of the little frustrations. Lunar November (December 11-January 9) everything looks fine on the surface but you worry. Settle any disputes with family in an amicable way. Lunar December (January 10-February 7) though a lot of money comes into you, be aware of unknown difficulties. Perform good deeds daily and meditate regularly.

My deepest gratitude to Khadro Crytal Ch Rinpoche, Black Sect Esoteric Feng Shui, for providing the predictions.

If you missed my blog March 2014, Eight Lucky Cures for St. Patrick’s Day, Feng Shui Style, it’s your lucky day.

Her House Not Only Talked, Her Feng Shui Got The Last Word.

Posted on March 1, 2015 by bette

“A house is very much like a portrait, it gives an indication of the character at the heart of it.”
–Anonymous

“Your House Is Talking!” is an metaphor I use to explain the impact architectural details have on our health, family, career, happiness and degree of success. It never occurred to me that I might have the pleasure of hearing that a client’s house actually talked, let alone getting the last word. Dee called me last November and explained her home was a Feng Shui nightmare. She said, “Don’t get me wrong. I love my house. It sits on a quiet street, has a lot of light and the yard is a bird sanctuary but I cannot make out the Feng Shui. I need help!” I came over and saw straight from the curb the issues she was facing. Missing street numbers, missing front door from the street and the master bedroom three feet from the front door entry to the house. She admitted she was feeling vulnerable with this last arrangement and was losing sleep.“Could we make it work?” She really detested the idea of moving her bedroom upstairs. She also confided that she didn’t feel welcomed in the neighborhood. I could see in her eyes this was her dream home and the relationship wasn’t off to a good start. She had found my Chinese New Year segment on KATU AMNW and felt confident I could guide her out of her Feng Shui mess. She believed in Feng Shui and knew she needed my assistance but also yearned for reassurance that Feng Shui would be the answer. I assured her the changes would be reasonable, efficient and help her feel at peace. She nodded, took notes and as we moved through each room became more and more confident how Feng Shui would help her. When we finished she was beaming.

Whether it was her excitement to see the magic of Feng Shui work or the consultation inspired her to be her most creative, or both, Dee was zealous. She was proud of her accomplishments. She shared stories that were funny and amazing like after painting the bedroom and bathroom (her wealth gua) she received a lucrative contract for her business.

Dee worked tirelessly too, to make her home “Feng Shui” ready for the holidays. In celebration she invited her daughter, son-in-law and grandchildren over for a little party. During the festivities, Matt, a big, husky guy, was standing in the kitchen and noticed the wind chime over her stove. As she told it, he screwed up his face, mimicking a comic he had seen on T.V. and said, “Oh, Feng Shui is stupid!” As quickly as he said it, a thunderous clap shook the entire house. He ducked, looked about frantically as if the walls would come down over him and said, “I promise, I won’t say that again.” Dee is a petite, demure woman with a wry sense of humor. And though she knew the house sent a message to Matt, she added with a shake of her finger, “Don’t you go saying bad about my Feng Shui.”

Since this episode and my January follow up, Dee’s neighbors have cleaned up the jungle in their back yard and she became treasurer of the neighborhood association. She planned to refinance her house to a lower rate which meant having her home appraised. She completed all the rituals at 11 p.m. which corresponded to Chinese New Year ceremonies as well. As she described it, “Orange peels were everywhere. I was given a target and hit it out of the ball park which I owe much to you, so thank you again!” Her next agenda item is to triplicate the success and I will consult for her on her new office which is the realization of her goal to work in the city in which she lives. Dee’s story is anyone’s story and a great story: she moved into a home with Feng Shui design challenges but with perseverance, enthusiasm, TLC and Feng Shui cures, she’s feeling happy and right at home.

Epilogue:
H. H. Lin Yun would teach that every object, utensil, appliance, every furnishing in our homes are animate. “Every thing in the house and every part of the house has its own spirituality. This is true of every piece of furniture, and every system in the house.” So here is a ritual to perform in your home. “Touch the stove and visualize that the God of the Stove has become aware of you and raises its head to look at you. The God is “energized.” Then request the God of the Stove to bestow blessings upon your family, that everything you require will be made available and your resources will be abundant. You can do the same for the God of the Desk and ask for blessings for your career and that your dedication to your work will yield fruitful results. Go to the God of the Bed, touch it and visualize it listens to your request. You can ask for more restful nights or good health. If you have clutter, you can tell the object you are sending it on and thank it for serving you well. This precept gives you access to communicating with the Gods wherever you may travel, albeit your home town or a far away land. When you energize these Gods, in turn they will offer you abundant good energy.

If you feel you have benefitted from this teaching, please support the tradition of receiving transcendental cures with a red envelope. Email me bette@shenmenfengshui.com for details.

What Matters To The Heart – Six Feng Shui Details To Make Love Last.

Posted on February 8, 2015 by bette

“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye”.
– Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Oh, your beautiful heart! Crimson repository of your secrets, it knows what feels right and essential to your happiness. It manifests the dreams you aspire; gives you courage to choose what your eyes desire and fervently pursue whom you adore…. But some times your heart becomes entangled and you can’t find the reason to explore. For Love’s sake, I am sharing six Feng Shui design details to clue you in to what may be derailing your heart. These details are known to sidetrack, hijack and waylay this precious organ of affection. Included with each are individual adjustments to keep your heart healthy and free from undue environmental pressure and stress. Because when it comes to love and life, the simple secret is what matters to the heart.

Piercing heart doors Three or more doors you could walk through in a straight line. They can create an invisible barrier through the house, which can create a barrier between family members. As it becomes stronger over time, the partners, parents or children become more and more removed from each other. Hang one or more crystal balls or wind chimes in the center of the rooms between the doors to slow down the ch’i and break down the invisible wall.

Beam over your heart crossing the bed This feature places pressure on the heart that leads to couples arguing, even over seemingly insignificant details. Move the bed if possible. Or hang nine 40mm crystals (9″, 18″ 27″ from the bottom of the beam) to lift the beam off of the bed. Visualize the crystals lifting the beam.

A knife edge that comes at the bed Poison arrows are called “sha ch’i”. This poison arrow may be directed at one of the partners. They in turn may feel criticized and act defensive. Hang a 40mm crystal in increments of nine (9″ 18″ 27″) from the ceiling in front of the offending corner. Visualize the crystal diffusing the negative Ch’i of the arrow.

Stairway in the center of the house Stairways conduct Ch’i from one level to another. When there is more than one level life is more complicated; maybe more ups and downs, illness and loss of money. Health issues may result causing one or both partners to lose time from work. Doctors’ bills rising and minimal income, partners may argue over money. Hang a large mirror at the top of the stairs to lift the Ch’i. Visualize the movement of the stairs is stabilized and assets and health coming into balance.

A bed on a door wall Partners may be plagued by anxiety and migraines. One of them may even develop heart arrhythmia. Move the bed if possible. If not, place a mirror on the opposite wall from the bed to reflect the bedroom door entrance. This will relax the mind and smooth out the Ch’i.

Biting doors at the entrance to the MBR Doors that are slightly out of alignment with one another may result in conflict between partners. If they are mis-aligned by exactly one half, not only verbal but physical fighting may arise. Over a prolonged period this weakens the heart. Place objects, such a mirror next to both doors. This draws the eyes simultaneously to the adjustment as you exit either door.

Flowers, chocolates, a massage send the right message but what could be better than doing something extra for love Double Your Happiness With Feng Shui Tips For Everlasting Love.

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Dream Big, Start Small, A Feng Shui Meditation To Create A Break Through Year

Posted on January 20, 2015 by bette

“There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open.”
–Martha Graham

Your expression is unique and the world needs it.
If you’ve have felt held back, dream big and break through this year. All it takes is 15 minutes. Clear your heart with a Feng Shui meditation and your mind will let go of what steals your passion. Courage will come easily to unshackle the trap of self doubt, release outmoded ideas and see through imposed limitations. Feng Shui meditation takes the blinders off, your heart will feel purified and you will align with your unique expression. With daily practice hidden talents reveal themselves: your wisdom unfurls, your whimsey blossoms and your imagination sets your creativity on fire. Your first thought becomes your best thought as you call upon your intuitive knowing to answer personal problems. Your heart will recalibrate and radiate Love. Feng Shui Meditation is like polishing the mirror, reflecting both your outer brilliance and the mystical, subtle world that empowers you moment by moment.

Your business is to keep the channel open.
Illness, unhappiness, anxiety, insecurity, anger and money trouble are all disconnects. You are capable of so much more. You have the talent, the intellect and the hutzpah to shed the inner critic and shift your focus to what is right, good and special about you. As Martha said,“…because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it.”

You begin by starting small.
Buddha was asked, “What have you gained from meditation?” He replied, “Nothing! However, Buddha said, let me tell you what I lost: Anger, Anxiety, Depression, Insecurity, Fear of Old Age and Death.” Setting aside 15 minutes a day to meditate will cleanse you of your worries and shed your doubts. You will recognize what is true for you, have no doubt what your purpose is and life becomes easier.

You don’t have to be Buddha to do this.
You only need to borrow her Ch’i to help you open your heart to greater possibilities. The Astral Body Meditation is a Feng Shui Meditation to create a break through year. It is one of H. H. “Professor” Lin’s most profound. It is lovingly offered to you. This meditation can be used to heal yourself physically and emotionally. It will relax both the mind and body, releasing you from worry. It will help you deal with worldly matters with wisdom and flexibility. Extraordinary things happen when you close your eyes.

If you want a copy of this meditation, please email me, bette@shenmenfengshui.com, for the PDF.

10 Feng Shui Decorating Ideas That Can Stay Up Past The Holidays

Posted on December 2, 2014 by bette

An interior is the natural projection of the soul.
–Coco Chanel

Some people are natural born decorators, they have a flair making their home picture perfect for the holidays. But if that gene bypassed you, relax. I will help you release the worry and doubt associated with, “I could never do that.” Spread the good cheer when you use these 10 Feng Shui Decorating Ideas That Can Stay Up Past The Holidays. I have selected Feng Shui objects and intentions that radiate beauty long after Christmas, Hanukkah, Solstice and Kwanzaa have transformed into memories of sugar plums and bliss.

Here’s how to mix tinsel and soul and make magic.

Refresh your state of mind Space clear the house. This is the most important. Perform this ceremony before you start decorating. This removes any unhappy emotions and low energy. From a Feng Shui perspective citrus is the number one choice. Its scent clears a sterile environment and brightens a room. But more than that, the orange’s power lies in its ability to transform that is why has been used for centuries by the Chinese. The Chinese word for orange sounds like gold. Sprinkling peels you have infused attracts abundant energy in your space and in your life. Procedure: Purchase nine oranges. At 11:00 p.m. open all the doors and windows of the house. Cut nine round pieces of orange peels from nine oranges. You will have a total eighty-one pieces of round orange peels. Break the orange peels into smaller pieces. Begin at the front door, take a small handful, toss the peel upward, visualize that all misfortune, illness and bad luck are leaving. All is well. Take another small handful and with palm down, sprinkle the peel, sowing seeds of auspicious light and visualizing any negativity being replaced with new growth of good fortune, health and positive events. See sunlight or universal light filling every corner of your house. The light will evict any bad Ch’i and misfortune and replace it with happy Ch’i, prosperous Ch’i and auspicious Ch’i. Leave in all the rooms of the house. Say a prayer of grace and you are complete. Leave the peels for one night, three nights or nine nights for greater emphasis.

Magnetize healthy Ch’i When the lighted candy canes have reached their due date replace them with electric lighting. Lights draw healthy Ch’i up from the earth, stimulating the energy of the entire front yard.

Create progress for the coming year Purchase a beautiful wind chime. Visualize how it will bring good luck into your household. Hang the wind chime from a red ribbon outside your front door at 11:00 a.m. Say a prayer of grace, this reinforces your request. This enhancement takes your eye level gaze and preoccupation with worldly affairs and redirects them up. At this position, you invite the power of heaven to create joy, stability and forward movement.

Empower your good name Red in Feng Shui symbolism means happiness, righteousness, courtesy, power and strength. The key to your holiday happiness is balancing anxiety with respect. As you paint your door red visualize these qualities and see your neighbors, family and friends admire your color scheme and honor your good name.

Relax your mind A water feature placed near the inside of the front door creates an illusion with sound. With a modest home it adds dimension and gives a spacious impression. And the sound of laughter from the water falling smoothes the Ch’i, putting your guests at ease and in a relaxed state of mind.

Continue your good fortune Lemons, tangerines and oranges are a highly prized fruit. Fruit, in general symbolizes life and new beginnings. Orange or “Kum” in Chinese sounds like gold. It is also a prayer or wish for good fortune. Create an orange wreath with bay leaves for your wall or create a lemon, orange and mandarin garland for your stairway. After the holidays, if your stairway is facing the front door, paint the railing green to lift the Ch’i and keep good luck from rolling out the door.

Attract a prosperous attitude A Harvard study showed that we feel less negative around flowers. “The positive mood that results from looking at flowers is likely to transfer to others – it’s what is called mood contagion.” A seasonal flower for this time of year, the narcissus plant, is a good choice to display. It is both fragrant and it attracts prosperity for the year to come. Adjusting by sense of smell calms the nervous system. Feeling relaxed smoothes your Ch’i and puts you in good spirits when Aunt Sally shows up.

Invite a fresh perspective Pomegranate symbolizes fertility but I am suggesting you use them at the holidays to bring happiness to the family as well as good luck for your descendants. Display pomegranates in a table arrangement either at the front entry or the dining room table. If you like the pomegranate’s color and shape display it as art in your home to attract these qualities year round.

Invoke a hardy resilience The holidays are unfortunately stressful. Family relations go through strain. Pine trees symbolize friendship and loyalty. But also any type of evergreen symbolizes durability and endurance. They never lose their positive energy and can create an optimistic spirit. Place a young, live pine tree in a pot at your entry or in the great room. Trim it with family photos and decorations and see your family feeling unified. After the holiday take it to the forest, plant it and visualize you are replenishing Mother Earth.

Keep your energy well directed Maintain your positive outlook by maintaining your health. If you are prone to sniffles and headaches, place nine lush plants at the front door. The front entry is representative of the health of the entire family, your head, helpful people and career. Visualize that everyone’s Ch’i remains balanced or if stress reaches unbearable proportions, a family conference is held to clear the air. This cure you can keep indefinitely.

Five Holiday Giving Ideas That Reclaim The Spirit Of The Season.

Posted on November 10, 2014 by bette

“You’ve always had the power, my dear. You’ve had it all along. You are capable of more than you know.”
– Glinda, The Good Witch Of The North, The Wizard Of Oz.

I danced around the house the day of the TV screening of The Wizard of Oz. I fell in love with kindly Glinda. I wanted Dorothy’s dark curls and ruby slippers. Scraggly Scarecrow, the melancholy Tin Man, the silly Lion and scrappy Toto filled my child’s imagination. It was all I needed at the time, but the story said so much more. It took 40 years for me to understood the power in it: your rewards in life are not so much about the adventures but the characters who become friends. They do not slide into your life by accident, they have the one unique skill that will burn the witch when you are under fire. Because of their love, generosity, grace and good-heartedness you survive in this world. And you are this gift for someone too. The holidays are almost here. Will the spirit get buried in the hustle and bustle this year? I’ve put together five holiday giving ideas that, I believe, reclaim the spirit of the season.

A reminder of why.
“Some thoughts as we enter the holiday season…It is important to remember that not everyone is surrounded by large wonderful families. Some of us have problems during the holidays and sometimes are overcome with great sadness when we remember the loved ones who are not with us. And, many people have no one to spend these times with and are besieged by loneliness. We all need caring, loving thoughts right now. Share this to give a moment of support to all those who have family problems, health struggles, job issues, worries of any kind and just need to know that someone cares. Do it for all of us, for nobody is immune.”
–Facebook post

Do it for all of us.
Dorothy did have the power but it was the good heartedness of her friends that got her back to Kansas. The same can be said of our collective goodwill and personal abundance, they are dependent upon each other. Rather than keep the power, we stimulate more good when we give it away. We have an opportunity to turn one life or a community around this holiday season. These five holiday giving ideas keep everyone’s spirit up and our spirit alive.

Love
Spread your heart. Fear and hopelessness come from feeling isolated. Giving your partner, family member or friend a twenty-two second hug releases the bonding hormone and neurotransmitter oxytocin, which is nature’s anti-depressant and anti-anxiety drug. For a stranger, give them a grin, it’s a gesture they won’t forget.
Forgiveness
Rewrite your story. Is there a grievance with a friend that hasn’t been resolved? Call or write them a letter. Sincerely express your feelings. Ask for forgiveness. You may change their heart and definitely you will have changed the past for a better future. If you need a prompt, here is the loving forgiveness prayer of Ho’oponopono written by Dr. Joe Vitale: “I love you, I’m sorry, forgive me, thank you.”
Kindness
Stop your humbug. Simple gestures performed with compassion create miracles. Pay a compliment, share your seat on the bus, play with a child or walk an elder across the street. This spreads a contagion of abundance and interconnectedness that is needed most right now.
Generosity
Give your time. Treat holiday panic by doing something for someone who could never repay you. Serve soup at a homeless shelter. Adopt an assisted living care resident for the holidays. Converse with them, read a story, bring a gift. Involve your children with making handmade gifts for the Christmas bazaar or prepare dinner once a week for a shut-in neighbor. Engaging your hands with your heart feels good.
Peace
Calm your heart. You don’t need to take on the ills of the world nor even one person’s misfortune, but when you give a bit of loving kindness, your generosity, your time, your talent you give a bigger gift: you expand borders from your heart to another and you defeat depression and build community. Performing good deeds with no expectation creates peace and that makes things right with the world.

Gifts for you.
I received such an overwhelmingly positive response to these two blogs last year that I am sharing them with you: Take Back The Holiday. Look East To Savor Thanksgiving Dinner With Six Feng Shui Trimmings and Restoring Grace: A Ritual To Replenish Your Spirit During The Holidays.

Blessings for an abundant November!

When Home Improvement Becomes Soul Improvement.

Posted on October 8, 2014 by bette

“We hammer wood for a house but it is the inner space that makes it livable.” –Tao Te Ching

Can you fix the unfixable? Beyond the 9 to 5, beyond the soaring career climb, beyond the A lists and A’s on English tests, beyond the cancer scare, beyond is where your heart dares to find happiness. Has it become increasingly difficult to feel your feet upon the ground? What influences you in your surround? Are the things that vie for your attention–forgotten birthday wishes, a sink full of dirty dishes, rushing after work to your child’s soccer game, text messages left unanswered–keep you tethered to a frenzy when really you would rather follow your whimsy? Time to seek another way; it only gets better with Feng Shui.

Your story is in the details.
“My partner and I feel more in sync; we work better together.” “(I) rediscovered stability, confidence and joy in my environment and in my life.” “I’m finally feeling like everything is on track with us! I am a true believer in Feng Shui from all the good things that have happened in my life.” Each one of these individuals came to me in despair. They could not fathom how to fix what they thought was unfixable. Little did they know it was right in the (design) details of their home. It was beyond their comprehension that by changing a design feature they would experience a miraculous change too. Hearing about the “unseen”, learning how architectural features affected their thought processes, influenced their emotions, impacted their physical health, helped them connect to the truth and influence of Ch’i and feel their own life force mirror it inside. Even if they didn’t comprehend how a cure could possibly work, they embraced why to implement the home improvement cures, why to perform the ceremonies, why to say the intentions, why to imagine the visualizations. What they understood was these were lifelines to their well being, these ritual processes were a celebration for their soul.

What my clients learned. Implementing the transcendental concept of the Yin and Yang is the only way real change takes root in our lives. If you are missing your soul connection, start with the Yin, known as the “unseen”. It exists in every situation and its influence is powerful. H.H.“Professor” Lin Yun in his ever present wisdom would share: “we may not see a tornado developing (yin), but we do see the destruction (yang). We may see political demonstrations, murder or hijackings (yang), but we don’t see the underlying intrigue of a political coup (yin). We can see a wind chime or crystal (yang), but we cannot see the Three Secrets (yin). We may see someone fired (yang), but we must also see that his or her firing can affect the next “owner” of the job (yin).” (courtesy Katherine Metz). Now that you know its effect, isn’t time to tune in and turn things right side up?

Your house is talking. Are you pulling your hair out with home improvement projects (a split stairway at the entrance will cause all life situations to spin out of control)? Have you scheduled an unexpected surgery (seeing the stove from a door that leads to the outside)? Are you arguing with your partner (many doors opening into a small space?). Do you wake up tired (contrary door)? Or angry (biting doors)? Your house is talking. Start with your bed, desk and stove, place them in command position. Read my March Blog, “Do You Feel Secure In Your Home?” then tour your home for the remaining details and make corrections. Remember this life is all you have.

Keep calm and carry on. You can do one thing that will make a difference. If you want more vitality, more love, more abundance, create peace in your household, even peace on the streets, implement one of the three color systems: the Five Element System, the six true words color system or the rainbow color system. Or use the color, green, because it is a peaceful color.

Here is a link to Floor Plans Matter, examples of common design details and how they affect occupants’ Ch’i. Perhaps you will recognize your home in one of this.

Have a brilliant and beautiful October!

Don’t Hurry, Be Happy, Silver Lining Feng Shui Cures

Posted on September 22, 2014 by bette

Nature doesn’t hurry yet everything is accomplished. -Lao Tzu

If your last two weeks were like mine you probably wish you could relive them. I wasn’t alone. I heard stories, intense stories, stories of disappointment and upset. So my question is,“While this was happening did you throw your arms up in the air and burst open with, “Enough!”? Did you? Good for you! No matter how disappointing and difficult a situation is, it contains a silver lining. It may not feel like there is one while it is happening but a challenge is a gift, a silver lining of insight, wisdom, growth, a new attitude and most importantly, learning to be better at handling challenges because you really do know they will happen again and again.

Survival of the flexible. Nature encompasses everything–humans, all of God’s creatures and natural disasters. There may always be the seed of drama in conflict but we carry inside our chromosomes the adaptable gene and we can choose to change. Often we forget that it gives us the advantage. A flexible attitude is energy efficient. It creates mental space for more brain power. Clarity to focus. So focus on what makes you happy. If it’s to spin the great American novel, do that; marvel over the Seine in a hot air balloon, find the time; run with the bulls in Pamplona, nothing is stopping you; triumphantly wave your flag at the summit of Mt. Hood, you’re nearly there. If your plan is to live long, prosper and accomplish everything on your bucket list, adaptability is survival of the fittest.

Don’t hurry be happy. Challenges are demanding. When you see one coming offer it your open-mindedness. It will give you leverage and that is half of the challenge. And don’t hesitate to chant, “don’t hurry, be happy”. Giving a volatile situation time will give you the space to formulate your thoughts and look at how you can accommodate all sides and create a win-win. Because life really is about “us”.

Polish the silver lining. Like the characters from the Silver Linings Playbook who run, argue and dance because it makes them feel alive in their heart, the lining shines bright when you live from your heart. Today is the Autumnal Equinox 2014. Day is balanced with night, dark with light. I have included five extraordinary practices that I believe will help you polish your silver lining, feel balanced and in tune with your heart when times are trying.

Sound. Karma is the law that past actions create your current reality. You live in the residual of yesterday thoughts. You are not who you are now but what you thought and believed yesterday. When you feel anger or conflict, open to the sounds of the Universe. Empty your heart, chant the Calming Heart Mantra, Gate Gate Para Gate Para Sam Gate Bodhi Swoha nine times and discover peace.
Smell. It’s hard to think with an unclear mind. During the day stress and clutter accumulate in your energy. If you have experienced a difficult scene with your partner, take an orange peel bath. Cut nine round circles from the skin of an orange and wash your entire body, even your head. Orange is auspicious. Its clarifying essence uplifts your Ch’i helping you seek your level of balance.
Sight. The natural condition of Ch’i is fluid. Our visual surroundings impress upon our eyes and continually influence our Ch’i. Low energy or unhappy emotions breed in a sterile or stuck environment. Increase your vitality with the coloration and luminosity of green plants. Your bedroom is the most important room in the home. Placing nine healthy plants here will help you maintain a positive attitude.
Taste. A bitter pill can ruin a good relationship. Before you say something you will regret, step back and “Swallow Your Saliva”, nine times. First create the saliva with the tip of your tongue on the upper palate of your mouth by moving your tongue back and forth 27 times. Then swish the saliva around your gums and teeth. While doing this think whether what you have to say will cause harm. Swallow then speak. It connects all the meridians in the body. Not only will this create positive relations between you and your friend, but strengthen your organs, in particular your stomach and spleen. Setting intention is the motivating factor to positive change. You will experience heart-felt results.
Touch. Kindness opens the heart. Giving your friend or family member a twenty-two second hug releases the bonding hormone and neurotransmitter oxytocin, which is nature’s antidepressant and anti-anxiety drug. Acting from a kind heart and performing good deeds daily helps you dial into a benevolent universe that you created yourself. You will find your family, friends and even folks you don’t know will want to join you.

Closing The Gap On Joy.

Posted on September 2, 2014 by bette

“If you make joy your goal, you are eternally joyful.” – Abraham

Do you love treasure hunts? Here is a pretty special one about Joy that I am excited to share with you and I think you’ll be excited too. I was searching the internet and came across Abraham and Ester Hicks. Their work is well known but up to now it had been in the background for me. I found one of their Q&A videos. I clicked. Flashes of truth appeared on the screen. Brilliant like a diamond, the talk encapsulated this phrase, “our reason for being is joy”. This time it really came home (literally)! Now at my house, Joy and Happiness have come to play and I am having the most delicious time. Joy is open, receptive, expanding and allowing. Happiness embraces “Yes!” Like Botticelli’s Venus, her presence uplifts. But it is not her emergence from the sea of emotions but from the senses that makes her presence most felt. I recalled H.H. “Professor” Lin’s immortal teaching, “We have 100 hundred senses in our body and Feng Shui helps us to open up to them.” Another piece of the Feng Shui puzzle landed in its rightful place–live your highest potential when you create mirror-like resonance between your senses, space, Feng Shui and Joy.

Closing the gap. Abraham shares we will always be in a place of wanting. It is our inherent nature. It creates a life of expansion. Our part is to experience joy by matching our energy vibration to the things we want to experience. How do we close the gap? First admit the wanting creates anxiety. You ruminate and worry, “I want it but will I get it? I don’t have it yet but I want it…” relax into the dance until it manifests. But if you cannot and your thoughts are in a spin, know it will create resistance and push your desire away. Quelling your anxiety to receive what you want can be supported when you create a Feng Shui umbrella over your home. Where there is a blocking wall at the front door (limitations), create space with a mirror. Where there is a stairway in the middle of the house, (fluctuating health and finances) lift the Ch’i with a wind chime. Feeling good is the path to your desires. When you take your difficult design details out of the anxiety equation, you are poised to send laser-like focus to what you truly desire and care about and this has joyful side effects.

One more word. Well being flows from Joy and visa versa. A home where the Ch’i has been adjusted expands awareness, creates calm and supports your well being. The interconnectedness of well being, Joy and Feng Shui shine through a beautiful home that delights your senses. What more could you ask for than living in an oasis for Joy to expand.

But if Joy evades you. Though I would love for you to feel Joy, there may come a time when you don’t quite know how to resolve a problem or you are overwhelmed by a crisis. Go to the Center (of your home). The eight trigrams of the Bagua were created as a representation of the thousands of things in the universe. However they cannot manage to cover everything. So, what is not covered, is in the center. Go there to find what you cannot find anywhere else. If, for example, you are having an issue with your oldest daughter and your not quite certain whether to place an adjustment in Tui (Children) gua or Hsun (Wealth) gua which represents the oldest daughter, remember the following: If you are not sure about the appropriate gua, or if you want to be “totally covered”, adjust the center as well. If something cannot be resolved, the t’ai ch’i also faces outward to all the trigrams. In this way you may find the answer. Herein lies the poetry of Feng Shui and the effectiveness of its wisdom will get you through.

Happy Treasure Hunting!